Wednesday, September 30, 2015

Everything's Changin...

My entire world has literally been turned upside down and blown apart over the last 7 months... 

My marriage ended, badly, he up and left out of the blue, everything I thought I knew was wrong.

The last 7 months have been emotional, chaotic, depressing, stressful, crazy, confusing, unbelievable, expensive, busy, and very dramatic... I am so sick of all the constant drama I could just scream. I miss normalcy and boring. Not that my life has ever been exactly normal...

I moved, again...
I decided the best place for the kids and I was back near family in Colorado! After 13 years of living elsewhere I am back! It is so weird, I grew up in Colorado and left shortly after getting married.  It has been so nice to finally have family nearby, which the kids and I have NEVER had before. My kids see their cousin, aunt, uncle (my brother-in-law), and Oma (Grandma in German, my mom) on an almost daily basis! Also their other set of grandparents are only a few hours away so we will see them more often than we used to as well!
My sister and I have finally gotten our good relationship back! She has become my best friend. All in all I am doing better here! Their is still a butt-load of stress in my life, still in the daunting emotional process of getting divorced... But I will get through it and come out stronger when it is all over.

Friday, June 05, 2015

Landscaping Disaster!

I love my house! I may be in denial but I am really hoping to find a way to keep my house and not have to sell it because I am getting a divorce... However, maintaining the landscaping by myself is proving to be a challenge... I need help taming this mess of shrubbery!! I can't afford to hire someone to do it and doing it all by myself would take me many hours, also I am VERY afraid of what might live in there (spiders, bugs, etc.)… Lizards for sure, but I'm not exactly afraid of them, they do freak me out when they come scurrying out of nowhere!

Sunday, May 31, 2015


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Monday, May 25, 2015

My Book: Letters and Lies

I'm writing a book titled Letters and Lies, it will be available soon on Amazon! Follow my author page to be notified when it becomes available!

Lettera and Lies is a book about the story of:
Love, Marriage, Husband, Wife, Military Life, Swinging, Manipulation, Adultery, Lies, Polyamory, Deceit, Sex, Deployments, Seduction, Letters, Infidelity, Separation, Forgiveness, Betrayal, Selfishness, Adultery, Divorce and moving on...

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Sunday, May 24, 2015

Sims 4: Creating Ghosts: Death by Fire

I've never mentioned it before on my blog, but I'm a big Sims fan!!! I recently got the Sims 4 game! I have been playing Sims from the beginning! As an avid player of course I sometimes murder my Sims, but not the ones I like, I create new Sims to kill them, ha-ha! I know, it sounds terrible, but it is the only way to get ghosts and now in the Sims 4, live Sims can actually interact with the ghosts and the player can also get control of the ghost. Ghosts are different colors depending on how they die and there are several ways to kill Sims in order to get ghosts. I was playing last night and successfully managed to kill 8 Sims in different ways!