Friday, June 05, 2015

Landscaping Disaster!

I love my house! I may be in denial but I am really hoping to find a way to keep my house and not have to sell it because I am getting a divorce... However, maintaining the landscaping by myself is proving to be a challenge... I need help taming this mess of shrubbery!! I can't afford to hire someone to do it and doing it all by myself would take me many hours, also I am VERY afraid of what might live in there (spiders, bugs, etc.)… Lizards for sure, but I'm not exactly afraid of them, they do freak me out when they come scurrying out of nowhere!


Sunday, May 31, 2015

Bloglovin!

Follow my blog with Bloglovin Just claimed my blog! I already have a lot of followers, yay! Been slowly doing some revamping and updating on my blog template...

Monday, May 25, 2015

My Book: Letters and Lies

I'm writing a book titled Letters and Lies, it will be available soon on Amazon! Follow my author page to be notified when it becomes available!

Lettera and Lies is a book about the story of:
Love, Marriage, Husband, Wife, Military Life, Swinging, Manipulation, Adultery, Lies, Polyamory, Deceit, Sex, Deployments, Seduction, Letters, Infidelity, Separation, Forgiveness, Betrayal, Selfishness, Adultery, Divorce and moving on...

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Sunday, May 24, 2015

Sims 4: Creating Ghosts: Death by Fire

I've never mentioned it before on my blog, but I'm a big Sims fan!!! I recently got the Sims 4 game! I have been playing Sims from the beginning! As an avid player of course I sometimes murder my Sims, but not the ones I like, I create new Sims to kill them, ha-ha! I know, it sounds terrible, but it is the only way to get ghosts and now in the Sims 4, live Sims can actually interact with the ghosts and the player can also get control of the ghost. Ghosts are different colors depending on how they die and there are several ways to kill Sims in order to get ghosts. I was playing last night and successfully managed to kill 8 Sims in different ways!

Tuesday, April 07, 2015

My 13 Year Marriage is Over...

Part of me is still in shock and it has been over a month since it happened. The full realization of everything that has happened to me over the last month is daunting to say the least...

After 14 years together, 2 weeks before our 13 year anniversary, he left me. We had only spent 10 days together throughout the two months prior. While I was out of town for 5 days visiting my sick grandmother he moved out, then told me on the way home from the airport... I had no idea he was even considering such a thing. He has always said, "I will never leave you, if I was going to leave I would have done it a long time ago".

We bought a house 5 months ago and I might have to sell it at the end of the year when he gets back from deployment. He deploys in a month and for ONCE I can not wait for him to leave. I need to be away from him so I can figure out how to heal and move on. Although I know the kids will miss him, so I feel guilty for wanting him gone...

I am so angry and hurt... I had to watch my children cry when we told them the news... Daddy doesn't live here anymore and we are getting a divorce... However, unfortunately, they are used to him being gone all the time so at least it was an easy transition...


If you noticed my name changes from Mrs. Marine to Trisha Flener on Facebook and Twitter, this is why...